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How do I plan an intimate wedding for two?

by | Mar 31, 2026

Intimate weddings for two have had a chequered past…

Originally, elopements were seen as secretive or even scandalous – historically referring to a woman leaving her husband, and later, couples running away to marry without parental approval. Today, that definition feels outdated. Today’s elopements are a deliberate choice – a way to create a meaningful, personal wedding experience focused entirely on the couple.

For many modern couples especially, the idea of stripping back expectations and celebrating in a way that feels authentic is incredibly appealing. Whether you’re researching how to elope UK, browsing elopement Devon inspiration, or exploring elopement packages Devon, the shift is clear: smaller weddings are no longer a compromise – they’re a lifestyle choice.

And when it comes to location, the Devon countryside offers something genuinely special. Think rolling hills, vineyard views, wild coastlines, and peaceful seclusion – making it an ideal setting for a private, unforgettable wedding for two.

So, whether you find the thought of a large-scale wedding overwhelming, want to move quickly, are mindful of budget, or navigating complex family dynamics, a wedding for two could be exactly what you’re looking for.

Elopement Wedding Venue Devon

PLANNING YOUR WEDDING FOR TWO UK

HERE ARE OUR TOP TIPS FOR THOSE CONSIDERING A WEDDING FOR TWO:

1. Tell people!

One of the easiest aspects of a wedding for two is that you don’t have to invite any guests. Equally, this can also be one of the trickiest – people don’t always love feeling left out.

We’ve found this works best when couples share the news personally – either just before or shortly after the day. Once you’re back, it’s a lovely moment to “announce” your marriage, share photos, and maybe even a highlights video.

Some couples also choose to celebrate afterwards with a relaxed gathering or meal. If that sounds like your vibe, our Vineyard Day Wedding can be a perfect way to include loved ones without compromising your intimate ceremony.

Devon Elopement Wedding Couple And Dog
Elopement Ceremony At Vineyard Wedding Venue Devon
Devon Countryside Elopement Couple And Car

2. Book the registrar and give notice

In all the romance of running away to get married, don’t forget the legal bits.

To ensure your marriage is legally binding in the UK, you’ll need to:

  • Reserve your chosen venue
  • Book a registrar
  • Give legal notice at least 29 days before your wedding date

If you’re planning your wedding in Devon, you’ll work with the Devon Registration Service to arrange your legal ceremony. Alternatively, many couples choose a celebrant-led ceremony for a more personal and relaxed exchange of vows – just bear in mind this is not legally binding.

If you’re considering a venue like Brickhouse Vineyard, it’s helpful to know that it is a licensed ceremony venue in Devon. This means you can hold your legal ceremony here, all in one place – no need for a separate registry office. If you opt for a celebrant-led ceremony instead, you’ll simply need to complete the legal formalities at your local registry office either before or after your wedding day.

It may not be the most exciting part of planning, but getting these details right ensures everything runs smoothly.

Devon Countryside Elopement Wedding Venue

3. Choose your location and venue

One of the biggest perks of a wedding for two? Total freedom.

No guest logistics. No accommodation blocks. No compromises.

Ask yourselves:

  • Where do we feel happiest?
  • Do we want countryside, coast, or something unique?
  • Do we want to turn it into a mini-moon?

If you’re searching for an elopement venue Devon or planning a wedding for two Devon, you’re spoilt for choice. Devon offers:

  • Vineyard settings with panoramic views
  • Dramatic coastal cliffs
  • Wild, romantic Dartmoor landscapes

 

Elopement Wedding At Brickhouse Vineyard Devon
Devon Elopement Barn Wedding Venue
Just The Two Of Us Elopement Wedding Devon

Why Devon works so well for elopements:

The countryside here offers privacy, natural beauty, and a slower pace – perfect for couples who want to be present, unplug, and truly enjoy the moment together without distractions.

4. Venue services and suppliers

One of the most common questions we hear is: what do we actually do on the day?

The answer: whatever you want.

That’s the beauty of a wedding for two – you can build a day that feels completely “you.” Many venues (including ours) offer access to trusted local suppliers, so you can create something bespoke without the stress.

You might include:

  • Photography
  • Videography
  • Hair & makeup
  • Flowers
  • Wedding cake

Whether you want something minimal or styled to perfection, it’s entirely up to you.

Just The Two Of Us Elopement Package Devon Countryside
Elopement Wedding Packages
Bride Elopement Wedding Dress

5. Brickhouse Packages

Our approach to weddings for two is simple: flexible, personal, and stress-free.

We offer:

  • Just the two of us elopements
  • Elopement with a few nearest and dearest

Each one is designed to give you a beautiful, meaningful experience without unnecessary extras.

We also offer weekday availability, which gives you more flexibility (and often a more relaxed feel to the whole experience).

Every couple is different, so we’ll work with you to shape your day – whether that includes photography, styling, live music, or something completely unique.

Explore our Elopement Weddings to find out the details.

Couple Eloping In Devon Countryside

Frequently Asked Questions About Weddings for Two

Can you legally get married with just two people in the UK?
Yes – but you’ll still need two witnesses in addition to the couple. At Brickhouse Vineyard, our team can act as witnesses if needed.

How much does a wedding for two cost in the UK?
Costs vary. A registry office ceremony costs approximately £500 pounds, while a countryside elopement experience with styling typically starts from £1,600 (2026 prices).

How quickly can you organise a wedding for two?
You must give legal notice at least 29 days before your ceremony. Beyond that, many venues can organise a wedding within just a few weeks.

What is the difference between an elopement and a wedding for two?
They’re essentially the same. Modern elopements are simply private, intentional weddings focused entirely on the couple.

Can you elope in Devon?
Absolutely. Devon offers stunning countryside, coastal, and vineyard settings. Brickhouse Vineyard near Exeter specialises in elopement weddings.

Couple Eloping At Brickhouse Vineyard Near Exeter Devon

Ready to Start Planning?

If the idea of a relaxed, meaningful wedding day focused entirely on the two of you feels right, we’d love to help.

Explore our Elopement Weddings to find out more.

If you want to include loved ones and a celebratory meal? Discover our Vineyard Day Weddings.

You can also download our brochure for more information.

Or get in touch directly via events@brickhousevineyard.co.uk – Sarah will be happy to help with any questions and guide you through your options.

We’d love to hear from you.

Team B x

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